An announcement

Dear partners in ministry at Trinity UMC, and friends, family, and gentle readers,

For eleven years, Benjamin and I have shared the journey of marriage. We’ve laughed and cried, weathered struggles and triumphs, and parented two magnificent children, Arianna and William.

Like any relationship, however, ours had some difficulties within, and we entered individual and couples counseling in the hope of finding our way through these challenges together. Unfortunately, we have both come to the understanding that we make better co-parents together than spouses for one another. We are beginning the painful and difficult process of separation and eventual divorce.

While this is a sorrowful and agonizing time, each of us is grateful for the strong support of family, friends, and beloved community. We hope that all of you who have loved and supported us as a couple will continue to see us through this transition in our relationship. Our strongest commitment is to the wellbeing of our children, who need not only our love and care, but that of a whole network of love and strength, to flourish and thrive.

Benjamin, our family, and I deeply appreciate your support, patience, and discretion as we live into the next part of our journey. At every turn, life can offer obstacles, but with the courage and compassion drawn from those who hold us in love, we can push through until we find blessings and joy.

Deep Peace,


5 Responses

  1. I’m sorry, Becca, a little prayer just went up for you all

  2. Becca,
    There are not many words that can express what is in my heart. This has been a tough year with the events of General Conference and now this. You will, I know, find the strength that you need in the Lord and I pray that others will understand the thoughtfulness and consideration that has gone into this decision.

    In peace and with Christ,
    Dr. Tony

    P. S. – look for a note on Facebook

  3. Prayers for you and Benji. And especially your kids. I know that, like all your decisions, such a decision was made over long discernment process. Gosh. Prayers.

  4. Becca,

    My prayers are with you and your family.



  5. […] life and family transitions sucked months and months of my life away; adding the Advent, Christmas, and New Year seasons on top […]

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: